🛡️What If Your Worst “No” Was Actually the Door to Your Biggest “YES”?

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Imagine standing at the edge of history’s greatest turning points, where Winston Churchill, amid the rubble of bombed-out London, stared down defeat and declared, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” Those words didn’t just rally a nation; they rewrote the human script on resilience, reminding us that every triumph is a temporary summit and every setback merely a detour on the road to something greater. In the words ahead, you’ll uncover the hidden mechanics of unbreakable grit. Stories of everyday warriors who turned crushing losses into legendary comebacks, science-backed rituals that forge courage under fire, and a single, counterintuitive decision that separates those who quit from those who conquer. Read on, then forward this to the one friend who needs to hear that their next step could spark their own revolution.

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This week, we’re diving into Resilience.

🔥Quote of the Week:

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” - Winston Churchill

🤔Reflection:

I still remember that massive gut-punch. Excruciating pain and gasping for breath.👊💥

When I first began my career in law enforcement and criminal justice, my full-time job was as a probation officer. My part-time job was deputy sheriff. As a part-time deputy sheriff, I was also a member of the SWAT team. I loved that job and the guys I worked with.

One day the Chief District Judge (who my boss, the Chief Probation Officer answered to), determined that I could no longer work part-time for the Sheriff’s Office as Deputy Sheriff and SWAT team member because he felt it was a conflict of interest. I was absolutely devastated. I had worked hard to achieve my dream of being a law enforcement officer and suddenly, it was all evaporating, right before my very eyes! AND, by no fault of mine!

But, I didn’t let the judge’s decision define or destroy me.🥺 I began applying to full-time law enforcement jobs. I applied to so many positions, I began to think I would never get hired. I jokingly referred to the declinations as “F-you, you suck, we hate you” letters. I told my wife I was going to wallpaper our basement with them all. Mindset is everything.

After many, many applications, I finally got hired for the job that I absolutely loved. As the years of my career clicked off, I worked hard and attained new goals. I was attached to the FBI Safe Streets Gang Task Force for several years. When I left the FBI task force, I was then attached to the United States Marshal’s Service Violent Offender Task Force for a couple more years. As those years clicked off very quickly, I learned along the way that tracking down fugitives was totally my jam! I loved the hunt. I loved the excitement. I loved the rush. Right before retirement, I fractured a rib on my sternum when the latest bad guy decided to resist arrest. I didn’t love that so much. He still went to jail that day, though. He went in my handcuffs. And, I went in pain.

Those years enabled me to rekindle that excitement and camaraderie I had previously known and lost. The lesson here is, I didn’t give up. I didn’t let the decision of the Chief District Judge destroy me. I pushed on in search of progress and finding that which I loved. My situation turned out to be much better than if I would have succumbed to the cards that were dealt to me.

That judge’s “no” wasn’t a coffin for me. It was my launch.🚀 Because of my decision to stay in the fight, I went on to have an absolutely wonderful career, filled with loyal friendships and fantastic memories.

Churchill’s words became my heartbeat: Keep. Moving. Forward. And every time I laced up those boots again, I proved it to myself and anyone who was watching.

What “no” are you letting bury you… when it’s begging to launch you?🚀

🏆Why This Can Be Your Superpower

Courage to continue isn’t grit, it’s your rocket fuel!

Courage turns setbacks into setups, losses into launches. Imagine: every “failure” you refuse to quit on compounds your confidence, sharpens your edge⚔️, and magnetizes opportunity. The world bends toward the person who simply shows up again. And, again. And… again.

• Job rejection? → 17 more applications.

• Business flop? → V2 with twice the wisdom.

• Relationship crash? → Standards clarified, heart stronger.

This superpower doesn’t erase your pain, it repurposes it.

And the best part? It’s free. Unlimited refills. No gatekeepers.
All you need is your next step.

🔬The Science Behind It

Your brain is wired to reward persistence. When I first began working in the county jail, people would tell me I was a “wanna-be” because my uniform didn’t include arrest authority and a gun. My response? “I’m not a wanna-be. I’m a GONNA-BE!” And, I made good on that promise.

Stanford’s Carol Dweck (growth mindset pioneer) showed that viewing challenges as “not yet” instead of “never” literally rewires neural pathways. MRI scans prove it: continuers light up 🚨 the prefrontal cortex (problem-solving HQ) while quitters dim it.

Then there’s the progress principle (Harvard Business Review): tiny forward wins trigger dopamine micro-hits. The same neuro-chemical rush as cocaine, but healthy. Stack 3-5 a day? You’re addicted to momentum.

Finally, Dr. Angela Duckworth’s grit research (12-year study, 10,000+ participants) found one predictor of success beats talent, IQ, and luck: perseverance after setback. Her formula?

Grit = Passion + Perseverance

Churchill nailed the second half. You supply the first.

🧬Stories That Bring It to Life

1. Fred Smith – FedEx Founder
1973. Yale prof gave Smith’s overnight-delivery paper a C: “The concept is interesting, but to earn better than a C, the idea must be feasible.”
Banks laughed. Investors ghosted. Smith maxed 17 credit cards, flew to Vegas, and won $27,000 at blackjack to make payroll.
Result? FedEx is now a $70B empire. That “C” paper? The blueprint. As the saying goes, “Those who can, do. Those who can’t, teach.” That professor had absolutely no idea! Otherwise, he would would have built a $70 billion dollar business instead of “teaching others how to do it” for a $70,000 annual salary.

2. Mary Kay Ash – Cosmetics Queen
Fired at 45 after training a man who got promoted over her. Instead of retiring, she wrote a book to help women in business… and turned it into Mary Kay Inc.
First year: 9 salespeople, $40K revenue.
Today? 3.5 million consultants, $3B+ annual sales. All because she continued.

3. Chester Carlson – Xerox Inventor
1940. Carlson’s “dry printing” idea rejected by 20+ companies, including IBM and GE.
He worked nights in a garage, burned his pants with chemicals, nearly went broke.
Finally, tiny Haloid Company took a chance. Renamed itself Xerox.
Carlson died a billionaire. His patent? One of the most valuable in history.

4. Truett Cathy – Chick-fil-A Visionary
1967. First restaurant lost money for a year. Suppliers bailed. Critics said “closed on Sundays” was suicide.
Cathy kept cooking, kept believing, kept continuing.
Today? 3,000+ locations, $16B+ revenue, cult-level loyalty.
One man’s persistence fed a nation. And, they are still closed on Sunday’s. Don’t let others create YOUR norms. Pay attention, make calculated decisions, take action and take responsibility for your action.

🏃‍♂️How to Start Today

Three micro-moves. Do them before lunch.

1. Rename the Setback
   Take your biggest recent “failure.” Write: “This is my ________ story.”
   (Example: “This is my FedEx blackjack story.”)
   Reframe = reclaim

2. One “Continue” Action
   Pick the project you abandoned. Spend 15 minutes on it. Only 15.
   Send the email. Open the doc. Lace the boots. Momentum starts with motion.

3. Celebrate the Micro-Win
   After #2, text yourself: “I continued. I’m unbreakable.”
   Dopamine hit → habit loop → superpower activated.

📖 📙A Great Book To Read On This Topic":

“GRIT: The Power of Passion and Perseverance” by Angela Lee Duckworth The bible on continuing when it hurts. Duckworth (West Point prof, MacArthur Genius) breaks grit into four assets: Interest, Practice, Purpose, Hope.

Read it with a highlighter. Live it with a fire.🔥

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🤔What’s Next?

Next week, expect another dose of wisdom (maybe we will touch on Leadership or Gratitude?) to keep your momentum going. Stay tuned for exclusive insights you won’t find on my X feed!

Here’s to your constant progress! 🥂

Your friend,

Grant

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