Stop chasing goals and start changing who you are to see permanent results.
A powerful quote đȘ, a simple action, and a spark to ensure your continued progressâŠ
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If youâve ever wondered, 'Why do I feel stuck in life and work?' the answer isnât your lack of effort, itâs your identity.
What If đ§ everything youâve been chasing⊠more money, a slimmer waist, perfect relationship, a six-figure job, the âperfectâ life, etc, was never actually up for grabs the way you thought?

đ Stop chasing, start becoming. As Les Brown says: "You don't get in life what you want; you get in life what you ARE." Your external world is a reflection of your internal identity. #MindsetMatters #PersonalGrowth #LesBrown
What if the real game isnât about wanting harder but actually about becoming more? Todayâs great quote from motivational giant Les Brown hits HARD! Because it quietly exposes the uncomfortable truth most people spend their entire lives avoiding: You donât get in life what you want; you get in life what you ARE!
The core conflict is often outcome-based habits vs identity-based habits.
đ„Keep reading, because today, weâre going to unpack exactly how to upgrade who you are so the results youâve been dreaming about finally begin to show up on their own!
If you enjoy this content, please be sure to share it with friends and family. Thank you. đđ
This week, weâre diving into Mindset. â (Click here to dive even deeper - It will open in a different tab)
Quote of the Week đ„
âYou donât get in life what you want; you get in life what you are.â â Les Brown

Reflection đ€
Most of us have a wish list a mile long: six-figure side income, deep relationships, a body weâre proud of, respect from our peers. We chase strategies, hacks, and 5-step plans hoping the universe finally hands us the prize.
Les Brown flips the script. He says the prize was never âout thereâ to be grabbed. Itâs a direct reflection of the person staring back in the mirror right now. The income reflects your current resourcefulness. The relationships reflect your current emotional maturity. The health reflects your current daily standards.
In other words, wanting doesnât move the needle. Becoming does.

Stop chasing the prize and start becoming the person who deserves it. đȘ Your external reality is a direct reflection of your internal standards. #LesBrown #SelfImprovement #MindsetShift
Reading books (learning) and implementing what I learned from them (taking massive action) have proven to be very beneficial in my life. And, they can and will do the same for you, too. Knowledge and action are the catalysts to your âbecomingâ moving âyourâ needle.
Just one book completely changed the course of my life forever. đ„ Itâs the very first one on my suggested learning list here (opens in a new tab). Because of reading that one little book, and then, implementing (taking action on) what I learned, the retirement nestegg I spent multiple DECADES building more than doubled in a matter of months. Let that sink in for a minute. I spent a 35 year career building that nestegg. I doubled it in a few months because I read a book and implemented what I learned. đ€ŻAnd, itâs still growing at a lightning-fast rate in comparison to what it grew while I was still playing the Rat Race game (â Robert Kiyosaki - Rich Dad, Poor Dad reference).
I should have retired a hell of a lot earlier than I did! But, we donât know what we donât know. I didnât read Peter Lynchâs book when he published it. Nope. It took me 25 years to find it. The big takeway though is that I actually took what I learned and put it to use! If I would have just read the book and done nothing else, (or worse yet, bought the book and never read it) nothing else would have happened. Iâd still be rowing that boat I rowed my entire career. Knowledge without action is just a waste of our time. And, without the correct mindset, you will never sail past mediocrity. Remember that.

Why This Can Be Your Superpower đ
When you accept that life is a mirror, you stop wasting energy begging the reflection to change and start working on the only thing you actually control: You.
People who live by this principle quietly pull ahead of everyone else because they quit trying to negotiate with reality and start upgrading their identity instead. They ask, âWho would I have to become to make this new reality inevitable?â then they go to work on that person. Every. Single. Day.

Stop trying to change the reflection and start upgrading the person in the mirror. Your reality is a direct result of who you choose to become today. âš #MindsetMatters #GrowthIdentity
In todayâs world, most people allow themselves to become side-tracked by doom-scrolling TikTok and escaping reality with mind-numbing sitcoms and dead-end video games. Doing something fun every now and then is fine. Letting that kind of crap rule/ruin your life while you could (and should) be creating your perfect life with your perfect combination of knowledge and action. Make a committment to yourself right now to making this your superpower and creating the perfect âYOU.â

The Science Behind It đŹ
Identity-based habit research (Dr. Benjamin Hardy, James Clear, Frontiers in Psychology, and studies out of Stanfordâs Persuasion Lab) shows that when you tie behaviors to âwho you areâ instead of âwhat you want,â completion rates skyrocket 200â300%!

Identity-based habits leverage the science of self-perception to boost behavior completion rates by up to 300%. đ
Why? Your brain hates hypocrisy. Tell it âIâm a healthy personâ and suddenly skipping the workout feels like lying to yourself. Tell it âIâm a prolific writerâ and staring at a blank page feels like betraying your own identity. The behavior follows the identity almost automatically. Wild, huh?

Stories That Bring It to Life đ§Ź
In 1968, a broke 23-year-old janitor named Harrison Ford decided he wasnât âan aspiring actor.â He became âa working actor who just hasnât been discovered yet.â
Kind of reminds you of what I said in last weekâs newsletter about my response to people calling me a a âwannabeâ because I started out as a jail deputy but wanted to be a patrol deputy, huh? I wasnât a wannabe. I was a gonna-be. And, I fulfilled that promise to them!

Before Han Solo, Harrison Ford was a "gonna-be" carpenter building his own legacy, one cabinet at a time. đ ïžâš
Harrison Ford turned down steady jobs, built his own cabinets to pay bills, and showed up to every audition as the man he intended to become. Less than a decade later, the world met Han Solo. And, that legend still lives on today all over the world. Talk about building a legacy!
Sara Blakely wasnât âsomeone trying to sell an idea.â She became âthe woman who was going to change how every woman feels in her clothes.â She faxed herself reminders every day that said âI am Spanxâ until the identity stuck. And a billion-dollar company followed in the following months and years!
Chris Gardner (the real Pursuit of Happyness) didnât chase brokerage licenses while still thinking of himself as homeless. He started speaking, dressing, and studying like the top 1% of stockbrokers while he was still putting all the pieces together. All while sleeping in train-station bathrooms. His external reality caught up fast.

How to Start Today đââïž
Your 7-Day âBecome The Personâ Challenge
This 7-day mindset challenge for personal growth is designed to provide small wins to change identity.

Start your 7-day "Become The Person" challenge today. Pick one goal and write your identity statement in the present tense. đââïžâš
Pick ONE result you want most right now (more money, better health, deeper relationships - choose only one).
Write a single identity statement in present tense: âI am a ___________ person.â
Examples: âI am a $250k-earning entrepreneur.â / âI am a calm, fully-present partner.â / âI am a strong, energetic 10%-body-fat person.âEvery morning for the next 7 days, write that statement on a piece of masking tape and put it somewhere on your mirror. Read that statement out loud in the mirror each day. Then, immediately take ONE 5-minute action that the person you just claimed would naturally do (send the cold email, drink the green smoothie, text the heartfelt message).
End every night by writing proof: âToday I proved I am ________ because I ________.â
Do this for seven days and watch how fast the gap between who you are and what you want starts closing. Finding your Pursuit of Happyness⊠đ”đȘđ«”đŒ

A Great Book To Read On This Topic đđ
âBe Your Future Self Nowâ by Dr. Benjamin Hardy
This book is the graduate-level course on identity change. Read it once, do the exercises, and your future self will thank you. đ«žđ„đ«·

Master intentional transformation with "Be Your Future Self Now" by Dr. Benjamin Hardy. đ A must-read for identity change. đ
If you donât have the time to read a book, try listening to it on Audible.

Wanting is free. Becoming costs everything. And, it pays everything back. With interest.
Decide today who you are willing to become. Then, live like that person owes rent tomorrow (because they do).
If this edition hit home, forward it to one friend whoâs been stuck in âwantingâ mode. Theyâll thank you, and so will I.
See you next Tuesday at 9:00 AM sharp!
Your friend,
Grant
Thank you for being a loyal reader!đđ
Love this content? Then you will probably really like this edition, too! Tony Robbinsâ Wise Words On How To Really Grow
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